hey...
yup, im still here, still alive...
trying to organise a wedding right now, which is pretty time consuming specially when there are so many ifs...

so far we have the following sorted:
a dress
the main reception.
a colour scheme
invites
a rough date
best man etc

we don't have:
a venue,
an actual date.
everything else vital to going any further.

the snags we've hit so far are mainly finding somewhere suitable... Ben is not wanting a religious wedding, and i kinda agree as it would be an insult to a lot of the guests, so that kinda rules out a church wedding. Registry office really won't allow us to do what we'd like to do...
which means somewhere with a licence. the cheapest (nice) place is going to be around 600 quid altogether including the registrar's fees and venue hire etc, and whilst still *slightly* too small, doable. However, we don't have that money and won't for a while yet so we have to wait...
except i'd really like my dad to be able to give me away, and he's ill so i don't want to delay too much... so yeah... it's all interesting right now... really hoping that my fundraising ideas will be able to get us someway towards it at least... but its fun...

sara